Positive and Negative Energy

Here we will discuss creating a positive self to explore self awareness in a positive constructive way. The law of attraction is real, I have seen it working in my life. If you are positive then positive things will happen in your life. If you are negative then negative things will happen in your life. The world is not bombarding you with negative things, society is.

Negative

First we have to exam the negative influences that affect all of us. Some are obvious and others are more subtle. People have forgotten what it is like to be positive. If we exam today’s TV and is evolution to the worthless medium it has become. While there are some good shows on TV I'm forced to the realization that they are not popular. The biggest choice of views seems to be news and reality or so called reality TV. The reality shows are worthless in almost every way. Many of them focus purely on creating conflict, fighting both verbal and physical. While audiences can't get enough. If you a frequenter of these shows you have a long road ahead. However, it is worth it to turn your back on them. The news should be watched with an open mind, everything you hear must be checked and verified. Many news stations are distorting the truth. When you see a sound clip go on line and find the entire video. Manipulation of sound clips is one of the greatest ways that the mass media misleads you.

Next you must exam the negative in your life and those who are bringing it. This can be painful but you must be strong to stand up to those influences. It is difficult to break ties with friends but in some cases it has to be done. Some will accept your new life and beliefs but others will not and even more others will attack you. When you start to put the distance your true friends will emerge from the dark and the negative people in your life will fade away. Do not argue or stand your ground, simply accept who they are and move on. This subtle inaction will speak more words then anything you can ever say. I don't know your friends but you do, you likely already know who I'm talking about.

Then there is your internal struggle, this will continue for a long time, I still struggle with mine but let me give you a quick example of the change I made in hopes that you can figure out the changes you need to make. When I was reducing my bills and getting rid of things or the useless objects in my life I didn't need, I called my cell phone company to buy out of my contract. Amazingly I found out it was still nearly $200 to buy out with just 4 months to go. This was upsetting because I was disappointed that I could not move forward from this high bill yet. Instead of getting mad at the young women on the phone I said "I'm so sorry you have to work for such and unethical company. I hope you can find a job one day that will allow you to not have to harm people like this. I understand it isn't your fault." I had her help me reduce to the lowest cost possible for that phone and moved on. I converted my anger into a subtle message, I knew in my heart she didn't want to do that and I saw no reason to harm her or try to harm her with words. Years ago I would have been enraged. Now I will change companies as soon as my contract is up.

Positive

Now that you have an idea of some of the negative influences in your life you can now look for the positive ones. In no way do you have the ability to see them all because most are very subtle. The most positive thing in my life was my wife. Her support and care helped me as she encouraged my continued exploration of my spirituality and my new dreams of expressing my idea's to others. She was there as we both grew in awareness and became very aware of our role in destroying the environment, empowering the elite and lack of action at our own spiritual and emotional costs. We lost many friends and even some family is distant now, but we have held fast that we will reject negative influences when ever possible and do our best to reshape a negative experience into an opportunity to show a positive side.

We now spend much time hiking and visiting nature and intend on moving out of the city. We no longer embrace gossip, violent actions verbal or physical but we will defend ourselves if needed but only as a last resort. We took all the negative things around us and being done by our government and turned them into a plan that allows us to relax now. We know it's there, we keep an eye on it but we passively do our part. We quietly move in the shadows. We buy less, we meditate more, we try to grow ourselves in positive ways that will benefit us and our friends.

We learned that perspective is everything and have we no right to bring our opinions to anyone. Therefore we have no need to gossip, just listen when needed and give an opinion in difficult situations only when asked. Conversations with friends are constructive and if they don't agree with us then they don't agree. We only ask that they do some research themselves. A grown man or woman is capable of making their own decisions and most difficult situations can be solved with a simple question instead of advice. Are you happy? If not do you know what will make you happy?

There are so many aspects to being positive I can't eve begin to cover them here. But be open with your partner, put your energies into things that will make your life meaningful and be positive about the world so you do not attract negativity into your life.