How long do you enjoy orgasm?

This blog is orgasm inspired, btw.

Thoughts verses Senses

People that talk about sex, at some point, want to know how they can have longer orgasms, or at least ponder it. This is not so mysterious, truth be known. Next time you are in the throes of orgasmic bliss notice the thoughts that go through your mind. Do not cling to them but do take note. Also notice how quickly they arise. Ask yourself why would you choose to put your awareness on such things as opposed to the pleasure you most certainly want more?

As you become more aware of your thought tendencies and priorities of awareness, perhaps you will come to understand something quite profound about yourself. Why aren’t you worthy enough to enjoy yourself more?

Orgasm can last as long as you allow your awareness to be dominated by it.

It is possible to make a spiritual practice out of thoughtlessness during orgasm but it most likely would not be often or regular enough to beat out a normal daily discipline, unless you have tremendous libido. If you develop the ability to choose sensory awareness over thoughts and the ability to choose what you are sensing, you have the whole ball of wax. It sounds simple, and it should be, but it really isn’t. What stands in the way of you enjoying orgasm also stands in the way of you enjoying everything else exquisite in life.

Life verses Death

You don’t like or respect yourself enough to do the best things for yourself consistently. Try tallying on any given day how often you choose to do something good for yourself verses harmful. I guarantee the results will disturb you. Still do the exercise. You want to have longer orgasms right?

If you think through this, the paradox will surprise you. Do you desire life more than death? What about you or part of you is making that choice? You can reduce each and every decision down to the difference between these two, life and death.

When you eat, do you choose vegetables and fruits or candy, cake, and ice cream? When you throw away waste, do you recycle? Does your recycler recycle? When you shop, do you choose products made by companies paying a living wage to its employees and are they supporting free trade or monopolization and the destruction of the middleclass? Does your job or career provide products or service of real value to others?

Each and every decision is a reflection of your desire to live or die. Where you fall in this spectrum dictates how much you can allow yourself to enjoy anything. How much do you value the beauty of life and pleasure?

Simple right? Not really!

If you were to just think about these things as an intellectual exercise, most people would make the right choices. So why don’t you? Is someone else making the choices?

Group Mind and the Invisible Foe

Go a level deeper and the next thing you will find is that the path between life and death is determined by which archetypal group of people you are on the same frequency with. Basically, what kind of person do you most have in common with? The average joe or one in a million? Unfortunately, the life crowd is quite small.

To choose life, you must break free from the group mind associated with death (yes, the human race has a death wish. It should be apparent but most are completely unaware of this). This is where the real journey begins. The group mind dominating our race is an invisible attacker. It has no name, or face. It does not want recognition. The only way to become aware of it at all is to develop control over yourself and your thoughts. When you win significantly, you will feel what it is like to be free of this foe. This is the only way you will come to learn anything about it.

One win is not enough. It is a battle once engaged that you will repeat endlessly, probably for the rest of your life. This is the good fight. It is the highest, best battle to engage in. It is the Great Work!

Oh yeah, the rewards of victory… better, longer orgasms …food tastes better …great scenery will influence you more. All that is most desirable about life will become more accessible. Better still, you will be increasing the quality of all life!