The Evolution of Relationship

what if none of what we think is happening in our relationships is true? what if right now, we were having the relationship we most desire with our lover? what if the happiness we can imagine as a result of that intimacy was available right where we are, at this very moment, regardless of our lover? what if then...as a result of truly being at that state of happiness already, our lover responded to our radiant peace? what if everyone is just simply seeking to feel happier...and this is why we seek a lover...and if as we discover this very happiness inside ourselves...our lover will be drawn to our light? what if happiness is the true mark of beauty and the determinant of our attractiveness? what if so long as we continue to seek a lover for happiness, we are giving off subtle signals of lack and do not attract the very intimate experiences we are seeking? what if we are to be the light of happiness now, without seeking a lover, and then like the sun...our magnetism simply and powerfully attracts? what if it is this very power of attraction, rooted in inner joy, that creates the life beyond our dreams? and what if our circumstances don't yet reflect this happiness because we are seeking them to provide it before we've become it?