Erotic Economy

The word 'erotic' is derived from the Greek God of love, sexuality and beauty, Eros. It's a binding principle of attraction, emotion and union. Erotic nature draws us together in pleasure, desire, and joy. Where Eros is feminine, Logos is masculine and refers to the rational mind, logic and reason. Western culture is built on the veneration of Logos, with knowledge and understanding being valued above intuition and feeling. In Jungian psychology 'Logos' and 'Eros' refer to the founding principles of male and female psychology

"Woman’s psychology is founded on the principle of Eros, the great binder and loosener, whereas from ancient times the ruling principle ascribed to man is Logos. The concept of Eros could be expressed in modern terms as psychic relatedness, and that of Logos as objective interest." (Carl Jung Aspects of the Feminine)

Our current market economy is a classic example of a manifestation of the logos principle. It is simply numbers in a ledger that do not require emotion to understand, and it allows us to make transactions without building relationships. It satisfies the assumption that if I give something I want something in return. An Erotic Economy, based in the principles of Eros, is one that brings people together in community, and that loosens the binds on the steadfast logos principle that one plus one must always equal two. It allows people to build relationships and experience emotionally significant moments through their transactions. Erotic Economy is based in the giving of gifts.

"Unlike the sale of a commodity, the giving of a gift tends to establish a relationship between parties involved. When gifts circulate within a group, their commerce leaves a series of interconnected relationships in it's wake, and a kind of decentralized cohesiveness emerges" (Lewis Hyde, The Gift)

Giving an individual gift is different from participating in a Gift Economy- it's a one off transaction with no expectation of return. When you give a gift you do not expect that person to give you something in return, either money or a return gift. You give as an individual expression of your generosity, affection, or obligation. Culturally, there are all kinds of reasons to give gifts- birth, death, religious holidays, or to celebrate a child's new teeth.

A Gift Economy is something different- it is a system of commerce where goods and services are exchanged through the giving of gifts, where altruism and trust are rewarded by needs being met and a quality of exchange that becomes a gift in itself. Where our market economy begins with the question "what shall I buy?" the gift economy begins with "what shall I give?". It turns the question inward to find value internally, asking where your personal gifts might be received, rather than putting value on external commodities. Unlike the market economy, when you find a place where your gift can be received, there is no expectation that the person you shared a transaction with will return something of equal value to you. Instead, a Gift Economy expects (but does not demand) that they give something of equal or higher value on to someone else. The gift keeps giving, and flows outward, growing and moving, bringing value, building relationships and becoming a binding principle of community. The inevitable outcome of this process is that soon someone will give you a gift, and the equation will balance out. But rather than a feeling of entitlement, or being 'owed', when a gift reaches it way back to you the feeling is of joy.

In an Erotic Economy you put your gifts out into the world and let them leave your sight, without direct expectation of reciprocation, and then naturally receive gifts as a result of your abundant behavior, building trust and community through emotionally satisfying transactions.

But there are a few potential pitfalls for this kind of economic system. A fearful voice in your head wants to ask "what happens if I give and give and never get anything back?". The Erotic Economy focuses on the act of giving, with the act of receiving as a bi-product of the process and not the goal. For those people with a specific intention or goal in mind, or with needs to be met, this seems like a slow and inefficient way of doing things.

Barbara Marx Hubbard, the visionary and social pioneer, coined the phrase 'Supra Sex'. She describes sexual arousal is an evolutionary urge to procreate, and the success of the species has been dependent on it. Now, with overpopulation issues becoming a threat to humanity, the evolutionary (and sexual) urge has shifted from procreation to co-creation. In order for the species to survive we no longer need to create more people, instead we need to become more creative and collaborative. By being creative together we learn and grow, evolving consciousness and gaining a deeper understanding of ourselves, each other and the planet we live on, creating sustainable life on Earth. This urge to create together is described as 'vocational arousal', where a 'supra sexual' urge drives an evolutionary desire to co-create.

(click here for 1 min vid of Barbara explaining Supra Sex http://oneminuteshift.com/videos/barbara_marx_hubbard/supra-sexual_cocre...)

Well, I know I certainly experience this! When I meet someone who inspires me to want to collaborate with them I feel an arousal that is similar to a sexual urge. I want to join my thing with their thing and make beautiful music together. It makes me a little crazy, like the theia mania ("madness from the gods") of the Ancient Greeks. I admit I have an uncontrollable urge to want to collaborate on creative projects with amazing people! It get's me HOT!

So if you add this concept of Supra Sexuality to Erotic Economy, things really start to get steamy. A community of people driven by an evolutionary urge to co-create, and a system of commerce that builds a sense of interconnectedness and community- the very act of participating becomes a transformational, evolutionary experience!

The evolutionary stages of Supra Sexual Erotic Economy:

- The act of giving- A Supra Sexual urge to reach out
A sensation of release and surrender
A demonstration of abundance and generosity
A sense of being received for your gifts
Gaining trust in community

- The act of receiving- A Supra Sexual desire quenched
Having your needs met
A sense of gratitude and joy
Humility in allowing someone to do something for you
Building trust with community

Once Supra Sexuality is added to the equation the system is super-charged with an evolutionary urge to co-create. Rather than being stuck in the idea that there is a scarcity, and the fear that your needs might not be met, instead there is an outpouring of connection and creativity which fuels and drives future transactions. Finding a need that you can fill creates vocational arousal, and the act of giving satisfies your Supra Sexual urge. Giving becomes your goal, and receiving becomes an inevitable and ecstatic act of transformation.