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"Banish the word 'struggle' from your attitude and your vocabulary. All that we do now must be done in a sacred manner and in celebration. We are the ones we have been waiting for." — Hopi elders

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Robert Soleil

About Me

Bio

I have traveled this road before and, yet, this is new. Filled with wonder, I no longer allow fear to accompany me. Learning to love myself (f*** that was a struggle) has allowed me to love another, without possession or obsession. To explore, to discover.... to reflect quietly, all are necessary elements that allow me to exist. Love, passion, sensuality is what I seek. No longer am I content to be a tourist in this world of images, just watching as they pass by which I cannot live in, make love to, possess as permanent sources of joy and ecstasy.

My passions are the pleasures of a sensual and erotic lover, travel to "warm" places, good conversations, amazing organic coffee, travel, beaches, sensuality and loving life. Reading/ spiritual exploration The Alchemist, Eleven Minutes, The Valkyries (and more) - Paulo Coelho; 2012 The Return of Quetzalcoatl - Daniel Pinchbeck; The Story of O - Pauline Reage; The Fifth Agreement, The Mastery of Love, The Four Agreements, The Voice of Knowledge - Don Miguel Ruiz; Khalil Gibran; Carlos Castaneda; Peter Senge; much, much more............

Lately I have expanded my cooking repertoire including making a delicious Marsala Sauce (Marsala Duck breast)although I do try to stay "organic." Invented a few new creations, such as Barcelona Chicken breast! And bison ... amazing and healthy.

Music...First, can you spell eclectic. I cannot define only one, two or even three genres. Suffice it to say I do like music with an edge (not rap or "punk" or heavy metal) and music that has meaning. Jesse Cook has remained a favorite of mine for many years.

Now the obvious is I am 62, fit, healthy (workout 3 - 4 times a week), no medications, no anti-depressants! Believe in eating healthy - organic as much as possible. I am not freakish about my diet, just aware. Single for 3 years and I am pretty sure of what I want when I grow up.

I run my own consulting business which entails travel and odd hours, which I enjoy and affords me a lot of freedom and independence. Exploring something more tactile presently, bartending. My story continues....

When I walk beside her
I am the better man
when i look to leave her
I always stagger back again

Once I built an ivory tower
so I could worship from above
when I climb down to be set free
she took me in again

CHORUS
There’s a big
a big hard sun
beating on the big people
in the big hard world

When she comes to greet me
she is mercy at my feet
I see her inner charm
she just throws it back at me

Once I dug an early grave
to find a better land
she just smiled and laughed at me
and took her rules back again

CHORUS

Once I stood to lose her
and I saw what i had done
bowed down and threw away the hours
of her garden and her sun

So I tried to want her
I turned to see her weep
40 days and 40 nights
and its still coming down on me

"Love is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it destroys us. When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused."
— Paulo Coelho

When all the trees have been cut down,
when all the animals have been hunted,
when all the waters are polluted,
when all the air is unsafe to breathe,
only then will you discover you cannot eat money.

Cree Prophecy

Skills and talents
My passions are the pleasures of a sensual lover, travel to "warm" places, good conversations, awesome organic coffee, chocolate, beaches, kayaking, sensuality and loving life AND to help transform the Earth, to reconcile spirit and matter in this realm! Tried cross-country skiing last winter and enjoyed it even though I have lots to learn - even bought my own skis! Reading/ spiritual exploration - 2012 The Return of Quetzalcoatl - Daniel Pinchbeck; The Mastery of Love, The Four Agreements, The Voice of Knowledge - Don Miguel Ruiz; The Law of Attraction et al - The Hicks; more............
Interests
advocacy, drumming, life and love!, Mother Earth, Shamanism/ spirituality, travel
What I'm Reading
see above PLUS Beyond 2012, James Endredy; Shamanic Spirit, Kenneth Meadows; Secrets of the Millionaire Mind, T. Harv Eker....; Paulo Coelho , Peter Senge (Presence ... ), Tim Ferris (The 4-Hor Work Week) more...
What I'm Listening To
Varies - right now, Eddie Vedder
Movies I've Seen Recently
tell you later

Education

High school
Yes
College
Yes
Graduate school
Some
Additional study
Lots!

Work

Employer
Self employed - consultant and advocate - helping the workplace (and the earth) become a fairer and more equitable place. Bartender!
Position
Managing Partner